Why Do People Who Enjoy Being Themselves Look So Attractive?
People who enjoy bold hairstyles or fashion often radiate a sense of richness in spirit.
And surprisingly, those who appear “ordinary” sometimes seem a bit more reserved.
This is something I occasionally notice after meeting many people as a hairdresser.
Those who express themselves are enjoying life
Vivid hair colors, extremely short cuts, daring super long styles…
People who choose what may look “flashy” often give the impression of being confident and truly enjoying life.
They are not doing it because it’s “eccentric,”
but because they honestly want to express, “This is what I want.”
In that attitude, I sense human strength and the generosity to accept others.
Even among “ordinary” hairstyles, some are holding back what they really want
On the other hand, among those who choose so-called “ordinary” hairstyles,
some secretly wish for a short cut, to enjoy color, or to change their bangs…
Yet they suppress those feelings for reasons like:
“It’s not suitable for my age,” “My face shape doesn’t fit,” or “I need to follow trends.”
I feel that such “held-back feelings” or “hesitations” eventually show up in their facial expressions.
People who accept themselves as they are are attractive
Of course, “Even with simple hairstyles, there are plenty of attractive people.”
Some accept gray hair or thinning hair naturally and make the most of those features beautifully.
What really matters is “how you perceive yourself.”
No matter the hairstyle, those who accept and enjoy themselves
appear very happy and spiritually rich.
Such people make you feel, beyond the hairstyle, “They are truly attractive.”
Whether a hairstyle or clothing is flashy or ordinary—
there is no inherent good or bad in that.
“Both are correct.”
What matters is whether you are honest with your feelings and can express yourself.
A hairstyle is like a mirror reflecting a person’s inner self.
I want to help each client accept their “true self”
and enjoy expressing it through hair design.
